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Love and Pain

What if  … is man’s greatest hindrance in everything that he do.  But,  what if  because of fear, we didn’t do the things that would have made us happy?

In life,  I think,e verything is a gamble.  If you won’t  take a chance, you won’t be able to win anything or at all.  And the  same goes for  love.
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Love and Pain (Photo Credit: mifscout-kareenakapoorwallpaper)

First, we put our emotions on the table, and life goes on. You might not really know how far you will go for it. In the end, if we lose, our greatest regrets.  The things we put in line just  thinking of conquering love.

The sacrifices, the decisions, emotions of the people around us; everything is at stake. If we get hurt, we are not the only ones who hurt; but, also those  who love us – our family.  But why is it that we  put everything  at stake?  Even when we know that it’s a fifty-fifty chance?

 I, myself,  don’t know the answer to that. Because I have done those mistakes too, in the name of love. After a series of trials and errors , would we really know if we will win the next time?   Would it be right this time ?  Or just another regret and  lost dreams? Why is it that people continue to seek something  they know could possibly hurt them? Are we really born masochists?

So many questions, and yet,  the answers are still in the abyss. Only one thing is sure.  Love is uncertainty itself.

As far as I can tell, I have watched love stories which started so well and ended up with tears. We thought this is it. We thought it is perfect. But at the end of the line, our hopes, we ourselves,  are shattered by the thing that made us happy once.

Or is it love that really hurt us or we just made the mistake of pouring everything that we are to a wrong person?  Like a song that goes:  “It’s  the lover, not the love, who broke your heart last night. “

It is said that pain make us  stronger persons.  To fail is to try harder next time, or do it better, give it your best anything.  But, when will all this end? The charade, the drama? Could we tell?

All I know is, WHEN WE LOVE, EVEN IF WE GOT HURT … WE LEARNED TO LOVE, and  IT MADE US HAPPY ONCE …

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I hate that feeling where you don’t even know what the hell your feeling.

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I fall for people way too easily.

blahhjohncenn:

I don’t know how. But if I constantly talk to someone, then I will pretty much start developing feelings. It’s just me. I wish I wasn’t like this though.

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